This article isn’t just about My extreme fetishes, but rather, a lesson in stealing power.

When I was 17, and working as a K-Mart Blue Light Special Girl (really dating Myself), our company put on a Women’s Safety Training class that has mentally stayed with Me over the decades.

The Female Law Enforcement Officer training Us, was painting some very bleak, but all too frequent, scenarios about physical attacks and violence against Women. She was explaining how to defend Yourself in worst-case situations, and how to take control from the perpetrator, while likely saving Your life.

The policewoman said, “If you cannot get away from the attacker, and they have you pinned or trapped in some way, drop to all fours and eat grass” — literally, eat the grass like a cow chewing cud, and then… urinate, defecate, and expectorate.

Of course, We all thought, “Eww! Disgusting!” But She explained that SA isn’t usually about sex, but rather control and power. And, She continued, if You humiliate Yourself, not only will the attacker think You’re an eff’ing lunatic, but You will have likely disgusted them enough to get them to leave You alone.

Now, bringing this back around to BDSM, D/s, and Extreme Sports… do I think She sparked My interests in certain types of edge play? No, not at all. But, as a Sadistic Humiliatrix who really enjoys putting filthy pig-dogs in their place, it doesn’t hurt to recognize the absolute control and power I maintain in doing so. A lesson learned well.

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