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weej the guard pup is back!
Welcome home to Property of DSF, weej, who has returned to the C/community after a 6-month break from SL. For those who have yet to meet weej, prepare to find one of the kindest, kinkiest, most authentic slave hearts of Second Life. weej has been a staple within our community since DSF 1.0 (approx. 2018),… Continue reading
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Don’t Reward Bad Behavior
Do You give Your dog a treat when he shits on the carpet? What about when Your cat pees on Your favorite boots? No! Of course You don’t. So, don’t reward bad behavior of s-types when they act up to get attention, or get what they want. That will not make a more obedient or… Continue reading
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Urinate, Defecate, Expectorate… Oh My!
This article isn’t just about My extreme fetishes, but rather, a lesson in stealing power. When I was 17, and working as a K-Mart Blue Light Special Girl (really dating Myself), our company put on a Women’s Safety Training class that has mentally stayed with Me over the decades. The Female Law Enforcement Officer training… Continue reading
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“Goodness of Fit”, D/s, and Femdoms in Second Life – by Rosa Hunter
The concept of “goodness of fit” comes from research considering parenting and temperament: According to Chess and Thomas (1999, pp. 3) “goodness of fit results when the properties of the environment and its expectations and demands are in accord with the organism’s own capacities, characteristics, and style of behaving.” If there is a match between an… Continue reading
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A Head That Doesn’t Talk…
…is a cabbage. My father used to say that all the time. He wanted to impress upon us, to be engaging, entertaining, to be ‘heard’, you have to speak up. He was right! This also applies to slaves serving in O/our community of DSF. Just being ‘seen’ isn’t enough. We want to get to know… Continue reading
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/s-type Activity: Buy Some “Divine” Boots
Since We work with s-types virtually, and often long-distance, We try to come up with exciting activities and fun challenges that are both meaningful, and help provide a touchpoint for when W/we are not engaging online. One such activity is “Buy Some DIVINE Boots”. This was a task I had asked a slave to do… Continue reading
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Aging in the Lifestyle
Image by rawpixel.com on Freepik Growing old gracefully is an objective for most Women; however, for Women in the Lifestyle, it can pose unique challenges and the need for occasional adaptations. I am in My fifth decade on the planet. When I was entering the Lifestyle in My late teens, I was far more energetic,… Continue reading
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Love LOVENSE? Save up to 55% Off for a Limited Time!
Hey DSF fans, want to save up to 55% off your LOVENSE experience? Thanks to O/our DSF Vendor Partner, W/we have a limited time link Y/you can utilize and $AVE! Feel free to share this link with SL/RL friends too! Thanks LOVENSE! ♥ https://www.lovense.com/p/DSF_55off Continue reading
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“Love is NOT an Emotion” by Divine Sadist Isabelle
It’s the season of love, and many like to celebrate Valentine’s Day. We buy cards and treats to offer as gifts of ‘love’. Is this something you do? I did a little digging about the ’emotion of love’. I’ll paraphrase part of an article summarizing studies on love. Studies say maternal and romantic love are… Continue reading
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Sadistic Slave Poetry for V-Day
Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra posted a ‘challenge’ to all DSF Slaves and/or Chattel on the DSF Discord Server. Here are those replies: CHALLENGE: Write a ‘sadistic’ Valentine’s Day poem for the Divine. It can be short, or long, but not sappy! NO SAPPINESS! This must be posted in THIS CHANNEL by Feb. 13th at 11:59pm SLT.… Continue reading
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Minding the Gap
I have always said, “age is just a number”, and as long as you are an adult (21+) with informed consent, then I might consider engaging with you. In fact, for ten years, I owned a slave boy from France who was 26 years My junior. I met him in SL in 2013, just as he… Continue reading
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Transformative D/s Dynamics
At DSF W/we work very hard at ‘investing’ our time, energy, and efforts on developing a strong collaborative community that understands and supports its M/members. O/our practice, both solely in Second Life (SL), as well as SL to Real Life (RL), focuses on the personal development of both Domme and slave. It is focused, intentional, and… Continue reading
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Out Damn, Spot!
As a Woman who practices Goddess/slave dynamics, the thought of a ‘dog’ sleeping in My bed disgusts Me. No, I’m not talking about your four-legged fur babies… I’m talking the naked bitch boy who eats scraps from the floor. In My view, a slave is there to serve Me, and I wouldn’t think of having them… Continue reading
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Wonders of Winter Festival – THIS WEEKEND!
For more details, please reach out to Divine Duchess Nellie or Miss Rosa. W/we hope to see you there! Continue reading
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Embracing Your Sadism
Tonight, Miss Rosa facilitated a wonderful Salon on the topic of “Sadism – What Kind of Sadist are You?”. Great conversation was had around the subject, with questions and comments regarding, “What does your sadism mean to you? Do you shy away from identifying as a sadist? If so, why, or why not?“ Towards the end of… Continue reading
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A Humiliatrix Primer: Mock, Shock, & Lock
Happy New Year E/everyone! Today, I am writing from My personal experience as a humiliatrix, regarding the joys of the practice, and the basics of venturing down this road in D/s. Let it be stated, yet again, that I work solely with male slaves, and while I identify as a Female Supremacist, I am NOT… Continue reading
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12 Days of Sadistic Joy BEGINS!
What: The 12 Days of Sadistic Joy (a variant of the 12 Days of Christmas)Where: Divine Sadism (activities to take place in SL, Discord, or RL)When: Starting Thursday, December 21 through Monday, January 1st, 2024Who: All DSF slaves, chattel, and s-types in the community. Participants will need to create a NC titled: 12 Days +… Continue reading
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Putting the Honor in the Honorific
Yes, Sir.No, Ma’am.Yes, your Honor.No, your Majesty. Why do we offer ‘special titles’ to those we may not know in the mainstream, yet, sometimes hesitate to offer them up in D/s circles? Perhaps it is the lack of disciplinary structure and training in most SL communities, few of which employ high protocol. But let’s dig a… Continue reading
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DSF December Photo Contest & More…
The holidays can be quite chaotic for many. Emotions, stressors, and baking, oh my! Fighting other holiday shoppers for gifts — er, am I the only one who still goes to brick and mortar shops? LOL At any rate, DSF is here to save your sanity, and provide a delightful escape to those First Life… Continue reading
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Sexy $$$avings from LOVENSE this Holiday!
W/we are so proud to be a LOVENSE Affiliate Partner, and they never fail to amaze U/us with their generous offers — especially at the holidays! For the next 19 days, you can order and save on any LOVENSE purchases by using this link: https://www.lovense.com/p/DSF-Xmas Share it with your friends and loved ones in Second… Continue reading
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The Rites of Redemption, by vlen
On December 2, the Divines of DSF will hold their monthly tribunal, a convocation of the full complement of Divines and slaves in joint purpose. An inquisition cum confessional cum sacrament. Second Life contains multitudes of experiences. Art and Culture, role play of every kind, sexual and sensual distraction, music and dance, friendship… Continue reading
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Interview with Divine Sadist Isabelle, by Scherzo
Divine Sadist Isabelle has graciously shared Her thoughtful responses to interview questions submitted to Her for our ongoing series of interviews with the Divine Goddesses at DSF. i invite Y/you to sit back for a few minutes and learn more about this fascinating Lady who has found Her place as a Divine Sensual Sadist. Q:… Continue reading
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Responsible “Endings” in D/s Dynamics
Recently, I was quite shocked and disappointed by a Dominant acquaintance, who dumped their slave after deciding they wanted to shift their life direction away from Femdom, and toward another life passion. Literally, their slave was told, after sensing something was off, “I’m leaving Femdom, and we can stay friends, but I’m moving in this… Continue reading
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Evaluating your needs, wants, and necessities in a D/s dynamic
As human beings, W/we evolve, change, and transform each day. What you may have desired in your 20s can look quite different in your 50s. So when was the last time you truly evaluated what your needs, wants, and necessities are for a current dynamic? Do you need more gentle nurturing? Or are you ready… Continue reading
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Is Submission A Gift? by Vlen
A couple of weeks ago, the Wednesday salon topic was “Is submission a gift?” Divine Miss Rosa asked me to collect my thoughts, and those of others, and compose a blog post. This is a perplexing task, as W/we learned together – D/s is so broad, with a kaleidoscope of subjects worthy of exploration. When… Continue reading
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A Halloween Task… Completed, by Gendius
A slave can serve in many ways, and much of what delights Me is when they ‘create’ or perform artistic tasks.This image was drawn by slave, Gendius, at My request for a festive Halloween image. Thank you so much, Gendius, for bringing Me such delights with your piece of art. Enjoy a HAPPY HALLOWEEN E/everyone!… Continue reading
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Setting the Scene in SL
A lot of people in Second Life, often, who have RL BDSM experience, find ‘virtual scening’ less than satisfying. But as One who has done both, I can say that planning a pixel play session can be immersive, entertaining, and enjoyable. At DSF, W/we enjoy both options — role play AND real play (long distance).… Continue reading
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Interview: Divine Goddess Tsol, by Scherzo
In the continuing profiles of the Divine Goddesses at Divine Sadism, i had the pleasure of sitting down with Divine Goddess Tsol. Well, she sat and i knelt. In both Her words and demeanor, it became clear that Divine Goddess Tsol doesn’t wish or need to assert Her dominance. It shines through in a natural… Continue reading
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To Meet, Or Not To Meet, That is the Question
Hello beloved Community! It is I, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, back from a two week road trip across America. While it was lovely to see parts of the country I’ve never traveled before, this trip was also grueling, in that we were on the road for 8 days out of the 14 total days. But,… Continue reading
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Questioning Y/your Comfort Zone
When it comes to D/s and kink, where is your comfort zone? Are there certain practices that come easily, and others that seem way beyond the boundaries of comprehension? As a Dominant Woman, one of My passions is safely pushing limits with those I engage with. I want to help them experience new things, and… Continue reading
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Spooky SADISTIC Season!
It is LOCKTOBER F/friends! My favorite time of year. Not only do W/we get to play over-the-top dress up, but it is almost expected in the mainstream. P/people seem more tolerant of, and even inclined towards, pranks, parties, a bit of danger, and decadence! At DSF W/we always try to provide that balance between fun… Continue reading
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Erase the Excuses!
“I’m only human.”Oh really? I didn’t fucking know that. Thanks for pointing it out. Yes, that is an excuse. And quite a stupid one. I thought you were a lump of shit. Well, in My reality, perhaps you are. WHY DO YOU MAKE EXCUSES FOR BAD BEHAVIOR? Just fess up. you wanted to self-indulge, be… Continue reading
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Annual Fox Hunt at Niuka, Lady Cythe’s Home Sim
Welcome to the Niuka Fox Hunt in partnership with Divine Sadism Femdom! “Looking up in the sky, I saw the stars were brighter now. They made a pattern I had never noticed before- a gleaming constellation that looked a lot like a girl’s figure- a girl with a bow, running across the sky. ‘Let the… Continue reading
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“The Ridge” – The NEW Release from LOVENSE!
Are Y/you ready for this? LOVENSE has done it again! Twirl into the world of anal with this long-distance, remote controllable device called “The Ridge”. https://www.lovense.com/r/3rd7va Whether you are a novice, or very experienced anal player, this vibrating silicone device will deliver delicious, decadent delights to Y/yourself or Y/your partner(s). With up to 116 rpm… Continue reading
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Sirens’ Circle at DSF EVERY MONDAY at 5pm SLT
W/we are so proud to welcome Divine Sadist Lady Cythe and the “Sirens’ Circle” at DSF, each MONDAY at 5pm SLT. DSF SLURL: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Gianno/168/63/2503 The Sirens’ Circle is a traveling club of ONLY Dominant Women that support each other in unleashing Our inner Sirens, deepening Our pleasure, mesmerizing BDSM subs and slaves, and having Our… Continue reading
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Deviant Behavior and Dark Fantasies
When I first got married, to a vanilla man, he said My behavior was ‘deviant’ and ‘concerning’. Granted, he was sexually inexperienced, and while open-minded, I think he was very intimidated by My interests. More recently, a slave in O/our DSF Community asked Me, “Do You think I really want to be a slave? Or… Continue reading
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Predator & Prey at DSF
It’s time to begin the hunt, Sisters! In September, W/we will explore the adventurous dimension of “Predator & Prey”. That primal energy that erupts in a natural, sensual, and sadistic way. As We strategically plan to seduce, persuade, and capture those wild men and women, with Our Divine Sight and Sensibilities. There is a raw… Continue reading
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Review of MyStim Tension Lover, by Talis
Pricing and ordering and delivery: The MyStim unit i bought came via www.bol.com for 117,50 euro (128 USD). This includes 4 gel pads, two double wires (+ and -), a 9V flat battery all packed in a nice case. In addition, I bought MyStim “charming chuck “(beats me why they call it chuck) which are two straps… Continue reading
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Interview with Divine Duchess Nellie, by Scherzo
I had the pleasure of kneeling before Divine Duchess Nellie to interview Her at DSF. Here’s a write-up of that interview. Since i’m not quoting Her directly, i’ve referred to Divine Duchess Nellie in the 3rd person to summarize Her longer responses. I hope E/everyone enjoys learning a bit more about Divine Duchess Nellie through… Continue reading
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Foot Fetishes: Worship, Slapping, Gagging… Oh My!
There is a common joy among slaves, even if they don’t identify as ‘foot fetishists’, and that is being near to their Dominant, kneeling, supplicant, or bowing at their feet. I consider ‘foot worship’ a bit different from just licking a boot. My own kinks lean further into the extremes of moist, sweaty, stinky, dirty… Continue reading
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Ego vs. Confidence… Do W/we need them?
I once had a submissive male ask Me, “why do You get to have an ego, but i don’t?” Clearly his ego was getting in the way of his thought processes right then. *chuckle* So, I proceeded to explain to him that all humans have ego, but many need a ‘hard reset’ to bring bad… Continue reading
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Interview with Divine Sadist Ruby by Talis
talis: Greetings, Divine Sadist Ruby, thank You for allowing me to ask You a number of questions, in order to get to know You better. If i may start off with Your favorite foods and drinks? Ruby: Hmm, black coffee is probably My favorite drink, then brewed ice tea. My favorite foods are probably Potato… Continue reading
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The Assfoolery & Bawdyville Show is coming!
In just a few weeks, DSF will be hosting it’s “Anal August Finale”, featuring a variety of silly, salacious acts that will entertain and amuse A/all! The Assfoolery & Bawdyville Show will feature DSF slaves and chattel, baring their bottoms and other talents on the Divine Sadism stage. The show is being coordinated by DSF’s… Continue reading
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What is a POWER DIFFERENTIAL?
Most have heard of TPE (Total Power Exchange) when it comes to D/s relationships. Often you will hear people say, “I offer my submission as a gift.” Well, I didn’t ask for any gifts, now did I? At Divine Sadism Femdom, where “Women Rule, Period,” We prefer to express the energy flow in a dynamic… Continue reading
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Interview with Property of DSF, weej — by chigley
chigley: Before we start, weej, i’d just like to thank you for all the help and support you have given me. It is so easy to get into deep shit here at DSF, and you have helped me out so many times! weej: It’s not a problem, my friend, we’re all in it together. chigley:… Continue reading
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Why are you IN the lifestyle?
Have you ever thought about WHY you are in the BDSM D/s lifestyle? What drew you to it? Are you new to the lifestyle? Or a veteran? Is it something you can’t live without? Or just something you fancy? I got to wondering about this for Myself over the past few days. I have been… Continue reading
About DSF
A Female-centric, High Protocol D/s venue in Second Life, conceived for the pleasure and amusement of Dominant Women, and the grateful suffering of those allowed to serve Us. We hurt, but never harm.