Happy New Year E/everyone!

Today, I am writing from My personal experience as a humiliatrix, regarding the joys of the practice, and the basics of venturing down this road in D/s.

Let it be stated, yet again, that I work solely with male slaves, and while I identify as a Female Supremacist, I am NOT a man hater, nor do I have a troubled past with men. I merely see them for who they are, and who they can be — optimized — within the context of consensual non-consent D/s.

That being stated, over the holidays, I thought of a term… “Dickficient”. Whether I’ve freshly coined it, or it existed somewhere in the collective consciousness, I believe it speaks volumes.

men, no matter how earnest in effort, will always be ‘dickficient’… hindered by their loins and groins, which robs them of achieving their greatest, higher selves (unless directed and trained by Divine), and really, it is a huge vulnerability for them, no matter how miniscule in physical size they actually are.

I know, it stings to hear that boys, doesn’t it? Sorry, not sorry. It is an observation, more than a judgment. I feel pity at how easy you are to manipulate as a result.

For your prowess is diminished in My eyes. Why would I, a Goddess, even toy with the idea of touching your pathetic flesh? It does nothing for Me.

And therein lies the basic tenet of humiliation. If it is useless to Me, it is useless… to Me. So, let’s mock it, shock it, then long-term lock it, shall We?

Does that steal a man’s power? Absolutely, it does. For men are taught from a young age that their self-worth, virility, strength, appeal, etc. is tied to their penis. It’d be better off tied to their appendix, and just as useless.

If a Woman chooses to make use of your dick, consider yourself deeply fortunate. After all, there are far greater mechanisms for pleasure, than having to unleash an unworthy little worm into Your Divine garden. This seems like an apt moment to mention O/our LOVENSE Affiliate partnership: lovense.com/p/D-S-F (Thank you Lovense and the DSF Community, for your generous support in 2023.)

Here are My top ten bullet points for effective humiliation:

1. Observe your subject – all humans have weaknesses and vulnerabilities. It is Your role, and right, to identify and exploit them (again, in context of D/s readers).

2. Establish firm boundaries – would you have sex with vermin? Perhaps some cheeky slaves would, but not a Goddess. Set rules for Your household. Micromanage, if that is your thing. It is not, Mine.

3. Objectify/Dehumanize – this is Your possession. Your owned ‘thing’. Do with it as You will. Remember, just because You humiliate it, doesn’t make it worthless. It holds some level of value to You,, if You even entertain it.

4. Strip it of Privilege – Why does a slave need clothing? Why must it even speak? Do not tell Me, slave, what ‘you think’, unless I ask for such fodder in a fit of feverish foolishness.

5. Pick the Low Hanging Fruit – Sure, a cheap, pot shot is the easy way to humiliate. It’s like the little bully in elementary school. Yet, psychologically, it can be rather effective. Especially when Your slut longs for nothing more than Your approval. Again, You allow them in Your presence. That’s enough approval.

6. Sharing is Caring – A great feature of humiliation play is sharing Your property with Others. It shows You value Your Sisters, and trusted Dominants, to handle — and hopefully mishandle — what You have claimed. (Have I mentioned this is within the context of consensual non-consent D/s yet? One can never state that enough in such a sensitive world.)

7. Name calling – I’m not talking terms of endearment here. I’m talking mental conditioning. Turning this pathetic grunt into measly mush. Reminding them how You took pity upon them, for few would. Failure. Disappointment. Shit stain. Skank. So many options. I recommend having them bear the word(s) upon their body to also remind them of their status in Your world.

8. Keep them Small – Whether they are crawling on all fours in Your presence, or kept in a confining cage (not, a spacious studio apartment cage), forcing Your pet into the physicality of ‘smallness’ also helps reinforce their microscopic presence in Your life.

9. Disposable – Anyone can be replaced. We learn this in corporate environments. you are only special because I chose to own you, keep you, torment you, blast you, etc. Beyond that recognition of your existence, you are just a grain of sand on My infinite beach.

10. What’s Love Got To Do With It? - Owning a thing You enjoy is a different type of love from ‘romantic love’, ‘familial love’, ‘love of a fur baby’, etc. I love many things. The color purple. Sparkling jewelry. A well timed joke. Those who know how to serve selflessly. If You blend other types of love with Your M/s dynamic, while it can be done, it diminishes the power and effect of the slave under Your governance. Choose what it is You truly seek and desire.

These opinions are NOT the general opinion of Divine Sadism Femdom, but rather, the ramblings of Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra.

If Y/your feathers are ruffled by My words, then good. They have caused a visceral reaction. Compelling writing is often controversial. Accept that, and take what Y/you will that is of use to Y/you.

“In My consciousness, in My world. Out of My consciousness, out of My world.” ~ R.N.

_{Note: For the utterly dense readers out there, these views are not how I suggest treating random humans in general. This is intended for extremely edgy, consensual non-consent dynamics within BDSM and D/s lifestyles.}