A FEMALE-LED COMMUNITY

Tag: submissive

  • Predator & Prey at DSF

    It’s time to begin the hunt, Sisters! In September, W/we will explore the adventurous dimension of “Predator & Prey”. That primal energy that erupts in a natural, sensual, and sadistic way. As We strategically plan to seduce, persuade, and capture those wild men and women, with Our Divine Sight and Sensibilities. There is a raw…

  • Review of MyStim Tension Lover, by Talis

    Pricing and ordering and delivery: The MyStim unit i bought came via www.bol.com for 117,50 euro (128 USD). This includes 4 gel pads, two double wires (+ and -), a 9V flat battery all packed in a nice case. In addition, I bought MyStim “charming chuck “(beats me why they call it chuck) which are two straps…

  • The Value of Virtual BDSM

    When I chat with F/friends who are not online in Second Life, or perhaps don’t even really get online beyond checking email, Facebook, or watching the occasional YouTube video, I’m often met with confused looks and weird comments about, “that’s not REAL, why are you so into it?“ Most of these F/folks don’t even know…

  • Foot Fetishes: Worship, Slapping, Gagging… Oh My!

    There is a common joy among slaves, even if they don’t identify as ‘foot fetishists’, and that is being near to their Dominant, kneeling, supplicant, or bowing at their feet. I consider ‘foot worship’ a bit different from just licking a boot. My own kinks lean further into the extremes of moist, sweaty, stinky, dirty…

  • Ego vs. Confidence… Do W/we need them?

    I once had a submissive male ask Me, “why do You get to have an ego, but i don’t?” Clearly his ego was getting in the way of his thought processes right then. *chuckle* So, I proceeded to explain to him that all humans have ego, but many need a ‘hard reset’ to bring bad…

  • The Assfoolery & Bawdyville Show is coming!

    In just a few weeks, DSF will be hosting it’s “Anal August Finale”, featuring a variety of silly, salacious acts that will entertain and amuse A/all! The Assfoolery & Bawdyville Show will feature DSF slaves and chattel, baring their bottoms and other talents on the Divine Sadism stage. The show is being coordinated by DSF’s…

  • What is a POWER DIFFERENTIAL?

    Most have heard of TPE (Total Power Exchange) when it comes to D/s relationships. Often you will hear people say, “I offer my submission as a gift.” Well, I didn’t ask for any gifts, now did I? At Divine Sadism Femdom, where “Women Rule, Period,” We prefer to express the energy flow in a dynamic…

  • Interview with Property of DSF, weej — by chigley

    chigley: Before we start, weej, i’d just like to thank you for all the help and support you have given me. It is so easy to get into deep shit here at DSF, and you have helped me out so many times! weej: It’s not a problem, my friend, we’re all in it together. chigley:…

  • Why are you IN the lifestyle?

    Have you ever thought about WHY you are in the BDSM D/s lifestyle? What drew you to it? Are you new to the lifestyle? Or a veteran? Is it something you can’t live without? Or just something you fancy? I got to wondering about this for Myself over the past few days. I have been…

  • Pet Peeves of Poor Protocol

    The following list is what I, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, find personally disappointing in slave behavior. Take note. 1.Not addressing Divine correctly. Misspelling My name, or offering the wrong honorific. We are high protocol, and this is BASIC.2. Not speaking from your knees. I identify, openly, as a Female Supremacist. If a slave stands and…

  • “Anal Joy” Elevator Speech by Bodee

    Afraid to touch your bung hole? Or be anally penetrated? Your apprehensions about anal play are likely related to sentiments about what comes out of, not what might go in, on, or around it. That, however, is easily remedied, as all you need to do is wash yourself thoroughly, and perhaps use a pre-packaged enema,…

  • Maintaining FOCUS in D/s

    We live in a world that is all about multi-tasking. How much can you accomplish in the limited 24-hours-a-day that you are given? We hustle and bustle from home, to work, to the gym, to the grocery store, to the doctor, etc. etc. The world becomes a blur of repetition and reruns. If we’re not…

  • “Anal August” has Begun!

    Do you have your butt plugs and LOVENSE toys ready? Today kicks of DSF’s new monthly theme, “Anal August”. What is all the fuss about? Well, many haven’t ever tried anal play. Some are curious, others fearful, but W/we will help you explore your back door, and familiarize you with all of the items you…

  • Survive the Catacombs WINNERS

    A great time was had by A/all who attended O/our July FINALE Event, “Find your FREEDOM: Survive the Catacombs”. This uniquely designed challenge by Divine Miss Rosa featured a trek through the creepy catacombs that lie beneath the DSF Cathedral. Participants were RLV trapped by their Dominants (or unowned slaves, by Anyone) and then subjected…

  • LOVENSE REVIEW: The “Ferri” by DSF slave, Shine

    An honest review of the Ferri, the clitoral panty vibrator. On the note of, this was my birthday, i was told to put the Ferri on, and at first, i didn’t really know what it was going to feel like; but with the Divine controlling the remote it did feel like a very OMG sensation…

  • How to Build Trust in a Dynamic

    Do Y/you remember doing the ‘trust fall’ in school with friends? Or even in the work place as a team building exercise? I recall that memorable scene from the movie “Mean Girls” when Gretchen apologizes for being so popular, lol. So, how does one build trust? For Me, just like at the movies when Y/you…

  • DSF Radio is ON THE AIR!

    Divine Miss Rosa and I, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, keep working hard to roll out some great features to O/our M/members… and the latest is DSF Radio. DSF Radio is a 24/7 EXCLUSIVE station just for Divine Sadism Femdom. It will feature an eclectic mix of music, some live broadcasts from your fave DJ’s (including…

  • Review: LOVENSE “Diamo” by DSF slave, Talis

    Ordering and Delivery: Ordering via the LOVENSE website went smoothly, and delivery was completed in 3 days. Packaging is fully discreet, arriving in a neutral carton box. The Toy: “The Diamo” is a vibrating, remote-controlled cock ring, that looks and feels high quality. I have had other sex toys which were not even close to…

  • “High Protocol” by DSF Columnist, Scherzo

    As a big fan of High Protocol, i was glad to get this assignment on the topic by Editor in Chief, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra. Before describing why I’m a fan, i suppose i should define what it actually means. According to Webster – ok, scratch that. According to this DSF slave columnist, High Protocol…

  • Sirens’ Circle in SL, led by Divine Sadist Lady Cythe

    The Sirens’ Circle is a traveling club, of only Dominant Women, that support each other in unleashing Our inner Sirens, deepening Our pleasure, mesmerizing BDSM subs and slaves, and having Our way with the world! Curious about the Siren’s call of the D/s Femdomme? Join Us for discussions, workshops, and the joy of having a…

  • LOVENSE: “Flexer” Review by Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra

    Divine Sadism Femdom is proud to be an official “Lovense Affiliate Partner“, https://lovense.com/p/D-S-F , and they are having some fantastic sales this month, up to 55% off on some toys, so I figured I’d jump into the fray and buy one. I’m not new to sex toys, but I am new to long-distance, remote controlled…

  • “Anal August” is on the Whore-izon

    This month’s community theme is “FREEDOM through control”, and as W/we continue to explore topics for the remainder of July on that theme, W/we also want Y/you looking ahead to next month… “Anal August”. Whether Y/you have toyed with Y/your backdoor, or never have explored the edge of Y/your darker region, W/we will help open…

  • “Who is slave Talis?” by Talis

    i have worked for over 35 years in the corporate world, holding many different leadership positions, and operated significant portions of the business for the company. i negotiated, on behalf of the company, deals that were in serious trouble, and would have high financial impact to the bottom line. i travelled for work into nearly…

  • “The Jesus of July” – Tanarra’s Tale of Vanilla Marriage to an Atheist

    Hello F/friends. Today, as I look at the calendar, and it is already mid-July (so hard to believe), I thought I would share a tale about “The Jesus of July”. That is what My ex referred to himself as, since his birthday was July 25th. I found it humorous at the time, for he is…

  • Wild & Wacky Wednesday at Divine Sadism Femdom

    Have you ever been Dominated by a penguin? What about a gingerbread cookie? Perhaps lil’ Bo Peep? Would those ideas ‘ruin the mood‘ of your fantasy of Femdom? TOO BAD! The Women of Divine Sadism are who They are, regardless of attire or avatar presentation. In fact, I think it is a good lesson, and…

  • FREEDOM through submission… a different PoV, by Scherzo

    With a nod to Independence Day, earlier this month, today’s blog topic is freedom through submission. And even more specifically, freedom through submission to the Divine Goddesses. We all wear many hats in our daily lives – husband, Wife, colleague, friend, Amazon purchaser, Netflix subscriber, …. – most of which are encouraged by society and…

  • Humor in Submission… by Scherzo

    Power exchange in general, and Femdom in particular (that’s really why i’m here, after-all) ) can often rightly be very serious business. Deep emotions are being tapped into between Goddess and slave: trust, dedication, bonding, cherishing, caring, affection, The list goes on and on and is as exquisitely unique as the people involved. So is…

  • Witness to the Divine’s Power, and giving FREEDOM through control… by Scherzo

    There’s a saying, “A Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step,” that some interpret with the implied rejoinder “So watch where you step!”. That’s how i felt as i walked into the inner sanctum to find slave Shine on voice being edged by several of the Goddesses – to their amusement –…

  • Consensual Non-Consensual Slavery in SL D/s… Is it free?

    This month’s community focus is “FREEDOM through control“. Not ‘with’ control, not ‘and’, nor ‘if’, but rather ‘through’. What does that mean specifically to U/us? Please share your thoughts in the comments below; here are Mine. The word through reminds Me of a sieve. Where something is experienced, yet passes through the mechanism. In DSF’s…

  • “FREEDOM through control” by Scherzo

    With a nod to Independence Day this month (in the US), today’s topic is freedom – specifically, freedom through control by the Divine Goddesses here at Divine Sadism. It seems a bit of a contradiction on first blush. After all, freedom is usually associated with less control over our actions by others, so how could…

  • Control Him with LOVENSE Diamo

    Want to give your favorite submissive a real BUZZ? Consider the “Diamo” from LOVENSE. This app-controlled, vibrating cock ring is comfortable, versatile, and stretchy! It is silent, with a powerful motor. Safe for longer wear, harder erections, and improved performance. DSF is a proud LOVENSE toy affiliate! ♥https://www.lovense.com/p/D-S-F

  • SL2oB is Happening Now!

    (Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra taking a Pod Tour of the ADULT region at SL20B) This morning I actually had a bit of time to spend in the SL20B zones, specifically the ADULT section, where groups such as Femdom Community Connections have some great installations. As you know Second Life turned 20 years old this year!…

  • Salon: Stealing Power

    Divine Sadist Isabelle will guide U/us in exploring the myriad of ways subs/slaves steal power – intentionally, or otherwise. Join us for an informative & amusing Salon. ❖ What: Femdom Salon: “Lets Talk About” Series❖ When: Wed., June 6th @ 5pm SLT❖Who: E/everyone is welcome❖Facilitator: Divine Sadist Isabelle❖ Where: Divine Sadism Femdom’s 2nd Level Training…

  • WINNERS of the DSF Pride 2023 Puppy & Pony Parade

    (L to R: Lady Lobbie & Alphie, Lady Cythe & Xara/Rufus, Lady Isabelle & Brandy) Congratulations to the trophy pets who shook their rumps and took their lumps with grace, and in stride… except for maybe, Alife. That hungry little taco muncher was barking up a storm! But it was all in good fun. W/we…

  • Funny, or Twat?

    A male visitor walks into a high-protocol, Divine Sadistic Femdom. Another man on his knees tries to be humorous and says, “Hey Joe, take a seat or pull up a knee.” Funny? Or twat? This happened tonight on deck, the inner sanctum. O/ur highest protocol zone within the Queendom. The ‘joker’ is a member, familiar…

  • 1000 Words of Summer – Task for DSF serfs

    This project will run from June 22 to September 23. DSF serfs are tasked to write 1000 words, at minimum, in the time frame specified above. Write it just 12 words a day, or 1000 at once, the choice is yours. You may also write more than 1000, or pick more than one topic. Pick…

  • Summer Solstice – Divine Sadism’s LONGEST DAY

    Happy Summer to O/our community and readers of the blog! June 21st is the first day of Summer, known as the Summer Solstice. Solstice means “sun standing still” in Latin. On the summer solstice, the sun’s daily northward movement in the sky appears to pause, and the sun rises and sets at its northernmost points…

  • Reflections on my First Days at DSF, by Scherzo

    (Left to Right: Divine Commander Passion, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, Scherzo, Shaz) Where to start? Tapping a finger to my chin as I think. Ok, that last line was the role player in me poking out. In my first encounter with Miss Rosa, the owner of Divine Sadism, I listened as she explained to me…

  • Bristling at Corrections

    It’s natural to react when someone corrects you. Most take it personally as a criticism. This is human. HOWEVER, in a high protocol Femdom, such as DSF, corrections must be accepted with grace and humility. If a Divine Sister spends energy and time to reprimand you over something She deems unpleasant, not only does She…

  • The Divine Sadism Difference

    DSF is not just any Femdom in SL. There are many fine Femdom communities in O/our virtual world. So what makes U/us different? W/we are not only collaborative on both sides of the slash, but W/we deeply invest in every participant within DSF. O/our focus is on growth and transformation, through practical application of various…

  • Reflections on my first few days in DSF by Shine

    I found my first few days at DSF rather enlightening. It’s something I never really knew I needed. I never looked deeper into who I was until I found DSF.Yes, there have been some ups and downs, but mostly fun! I feel I can actually be myself there, and, well, I’m usually the outcast, the…

  • 7 Seas Fishing at DSF – Game Pavilion Pond

    Join the Divine, and those that serve the community, for casual 7 Seas Fishing and scheduled fishing tournaments! Catch common to super ultrarare fishies, including custom items that can only be obtained at Divine Sadism. You can purchase your fishing rod, bait, and other items right beside the pond, and you can level up your…

  • I Want Your Obedience, Not Your Apologies!

    At O/our sim in Second Life, there is a banner that reads, “I don’t want your apologies (excuses), I want your obedience.” This is true! Saying “I’m sorry,” for transgressions, or failures, may be a considerate offering, but not if your bad behavior continues. It is easy to say, and becomes meaningless after it’s heard…

  • Taco Wednesdays? It’s Raining Tacos!

    Photo Credit: Divine Lady Tsol DSF M/members had a blast with a flash mob dance party following O/our Wednesday night Salon: “Let’s Talk About It” gathering. Why is dancing together in Second Life so fun? It’s AMUSEMENT! It’s LAUGHTER! It’s ENERGETIC! And it let’s off steam from First Life. Thanks to E/everyone who attended, and…

  • Salon: “Let’s Talk About It!” – Climbing the Ladder of Confidence

    Salon: “Let’s Talk About It” – Climbing the Ladder of Confidence When: Wednesday, 5pm SLT, DSF Training Center Facilitator: Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra Format: Women-centric Discussion, A/all welcome to attend. Discussion is held on voice, and P/participants MUST be able to hear, at minimum. W/we will use the talking stick, or a C/Q/R system for…

  • Video Promo in SL and Censorship on YT

    Well, W/we accomplished a ‘new thing’ in the community today. W/we figured out how to record video in SL and use it for event promotion. W/we were super excited to start Vlogging and using YouTube to further reach community members and promote both DSF and SL. However, YT had other plans. Although our video was…

  • DSF Slave Mentoring – But It’s SO UNFAIR!!!!

    Sometimes Dominants require or impose something that can feel utterly unfair. But is it?Join us to discuss some of the challenges of being a slave and work together to find solutions. ❖ What: DSF Slave Mentoring❖ When: Sun, June 13th @ 11:00am – 12:00pm❖Who: /s types❖Facilitator: weej & staff❖ Where: DSF training room Conducted in…

  • “Venus and Mars”, a poem by Bodee Crisp

    She who rules the savage things,oft on thy bosom he flings. The eternal wounds of your love, drain all of his powers,Wide-mouthed, with greedy eyes he waits, as thy person she devours. Head back, his very soul upon thy lips suspended,Take him in thy embrace, Goddess, let him be upended. Hurt the longed-for body with…

  • Teamwork Makes the Dream Work!

    Join Divine Proprietrix, Miss Rosa, as she leads O/our next Sunday workshop on June 11th at 11am SLT, in the Divine Sadism Femdom Training Center. The focus this week will be on the importance of collaboration for both Dominants and slaves. W/we will discuss DSF’s unique approach, covering O/ur D/s Model of Collaboration. Discussion and…

  • “Between the devil and the Divine” – A post by Weej

    I was recently tasked with writing a little about what its like being between “The devil and The Divine!” so hear it is… For those rare few, like me, being between the devil and The Divine is one of the most delicious places a slave can be. It’s exhilarating and exciting and scary AF, pardon…