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July Adventure!

Our DSF July adventure took us to an amusement park! Everyone who participated had a great time. Thanks to Cythe and her slaves for locating the fun.

July 29, 2024
The Value of Virtual BDSM

When I chat with F/friends who are not online in Second Life, or perhaps don’t even really get online beyond checking email, Facebook, or watching the occasional YouTube video, I’m often met with confused looks and weird comments about, “that’s not REAL, why are you so into it?“ Most of these F/folks don’t even know…

August 27, 2023

More from Divine Sadism

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Letters to Tomorrow: DSF Slaves Write “Dear Me”

The turning of the year is a chance to pause, reflect, and choose a direction. For this “Dear Me” devotion, DSF slaves and servants wrote short letters to their future selves – capturing what they hope to grow into, remember, or change in the year ahead. shovelbum d’Elf (talis) Dear Santa, Keeper of Snow and…

August 16, 2026
“Goodness of Fit”, D/s, and Femdoms in Second Life – by Rosa Hunter

The concept of “goodness of fit” comes from research considering parenting and temperament: According to Chess and Thomas (1999, pp. 3) “goodness of fit results when the properties of the environment and its expectations and demands are in accord with the organism’s own capacities, characteristics, and style of behaving.” If there is a match between an…

August 15, 2026
Servant and Slave: What’s the Difference?

Our recent Salon at DSF raised the following topic: While no one gets to define your submission but you, there are general categories within the lifestyle. We will explore those of servant and slave. The conversation that followed opened up a whole host of issues and, as usually, every left with lots of new questions…

August 7, 2026
From Curiosity to Confidence: Lovense’s Anonymous Prostate Pleasure Survey

A lot of men are curious about prostate pleasure but never fully explore it. Not because the interest isn’t there, but because stigma, hesitation, fear, judgment, privacy concerns, awkward conversations, and uncertainty often get in the way. In May Lovense took a survey to find out why. The results are in! Anything sound familiar? Love…

May 18, 2026
New Event: Hooked – Femdom Fishing

‘Hooked: Femdom Fishing’ is a new event splashing through DSF: every second Friday at 6pm SLT we gather for a 7 Seas fishing contest and just all-around wonderful time. The Divine (and any visiting Dominants) can avail themselves of comfortable spots to relax: stand, sit, or even sit on a lucky slave. Meanwhile the s/types…

March 30, 2026
Fabulous field trip: Divine Whim

For February, we wandered into “On A Whim”: a beautiful forested island where everything is hearts and blossoms. We kicked things off with a bike ride, flower baskets loaded, trekking across the island with the s/types showing off their balancing skills on top of a geodesic dome at the end. From there we upgraded to…

March 1, 2026