Tag: bdsm
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Don’t Reward Bad Behavior
Do You give Your dog a treat when he shits on the carpet? What about when Your cat pees on Your favorite boots? No! Of course You don’t. So, don’t reward bad behavior of s-types when they act up to get attention, or get what they want. That will not make a more obedient or…
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A Head That Doesn’t Talk…
…is a cabbage. My father used to say that all the time. He wanted to impress upon us, to be engaging, entertaining, to be ‘heard’, you have to speak up. He was right! This also applies to slaves serving in O/our community of DSF. Just being ‘seen’ isn’t enough. We want to get to know…
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“Love is NOT an Emotion” by Divine Sadist Isabelle
It’s the season of love, and many like to celebrate Valentine’s Day. We buy cards and treats to offer as gifts of ‘love’. Is this something you do? I did a little digging about the ’emotion of love’. I’ll paraphrase part of an article summarizing studies on love. Studies say maternal and romantic love are…
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Sadistic Slave Poetry for V-Day
Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra posted a ‘challenge’ to all DSF Slaves and/or Chattel on the DSF Discord Server. Here are those replies: CHALLENGE: Write a ‘sadistic’ Valentine’s Day poem for the Divine. It can be short, or long, but not sappy! NO SAPPINESS! This must be posted in THIS CHANNEL by Feb. 13th at 11:59pm SLT.…
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Transformative D/s Dynamics
At DSF W/we work very hard at ‘investing’ our time, energy, and efforts on developing a strong collaborative community that understands and supports its M/members. O/our practice, both solely in Second Life (SL), as well as SL to Real Life (RL), focuses on the personal development of both Domme and slave. It is focused, intentional, and…
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Out Damn, Spot!
As a Woman who practices Goddess/slave dynamics, the thought of a ‘dog’ sleeping in My bed disgusts Me. No, I’m not talking about your four-legged fur babies… I’m talking the naked bitch boy who eats scraps from the floor. In My view, a slave is there to serve Me, and I wouldn’t think of having them…
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Embracing Your Sadism
Tonight, Miss Rosa facilitated a wonderful Salon on the topic of “Sadism – What Kind of Sadist are You?”. Great conversation was had around the subject, with questions and comments regarding, “What does your sadism mean to you? Do you shy away from identifying as a sadist? If so, why, or why not?“ Towards the end of…
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A Humiliatrix Primer: Mock, Shock, & Lock
Happy New Year E/everyone! Today, I am writing from My personal experience as a humiliatrix, regarding the joys of the practice, and the basics of venturing down this road in D/s. Let it be stated, yet again, that I work solely with male slaves, and while I identify as a Female Supremacist, I am NOT…
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12 Days of Sadistic Joy BEGINS!
What: The 12 Days of Sadistic Joy (a variant of the 12 Days of Christmas)Where: Divine Sadism (activities to take place in SL, Discord, or RL)When: Starting Thursday, December 21 through Monday, January 1st, 2024Who: All DSF slaves, chattel, and s-types in the community. Participants will need to create a NC titled: 12 Days +…
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Putting the Honor in the Honorific
Yes, Sir.No, Ma’am.Yes, your Honor.No, your Majesty. Why do we offer ‘special titles’ to those we may not know in the mainstream, yet, sometimes hesitate to offer them up in D/s circles? Perhaps it is the lack of disciplinary structure and training in most SL communities, few of which employ high protocol. But let’s dig a…
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The Rites of Redemption, by vlen
On December 2, the Divines of DSF will hold their monthly tribunal, a convocation of the full complement of Divines and slaves in joint purpose. An inquisition cum confessional cum sacrament. Second Life contains multitudes of experiences. Art and Culture, role play of every kind, sexual and sensual distraction, music and dance, friendship…
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Interview with Divine Sadist Isabelle, by Scherzo
Divine Sadist Isabelle has graciously shared Her thoughtful responses to interview questions submitted to Her for our ongoing series of interviews with the Divine Goddesses at DSF. i invite Y/you to sit back for a few minutes and learn more about this fascinating Lady who has found Her place as a Divine Sensual Sadist. Q:…
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Responsible “Endings” in D/s Dynamics
Recently, I was quite shocked and disappointed by a Dominant acquaintance, who dumped their slave after deciding they wanted to shift their life direction away from Femdom, and toward another life passion. Literally, their slave was told, after sensing something was off, “I’m leaving Femdom, and we can stay friends, but I’m moving in this…
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Evaluating your needs, wants, and necessities in a D/s dynamic
As human beings, W/we evolve, change, and transform each day. What you may have desired in your 20s can look quite different in your 50s. So when was the last time you truly evaluated what your needs, wants, and necessities are for a current dynamic? Do you need more gentle nurturing? Or are you ready…
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Is Submission A Gift? by Vlen
A couple of weeks ago, the Wednesday salon topic was “Is submission a gift?” Divine Miss Rosa asked me to collect my thoughts, and those of others, and compose a blog post. This is a perplexing task, as W/we learned together – D/s is so broad, with a kaleidoscope of subjects worthy of exploration. When…
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A Halloween Task… Completed, by Gendius
A slave can serve in many ways, and much of what delights Me is when they ‘create’ or perform artistic tasks.This image was drawn by slave, Gendius, at My request for a festive Halloween image. Thank you so much, Gendius, for bringing Me such delights with your piece of art. Enjoy a HAPPY HALLOWEEN E/everyone!…
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Setting the Scene in SL
A lot of people in Second Life, often, who have RL BDSM experience, find ‘virtual scening’ less than satisfying. But as One who has done both, I can say that planning a pixel play session can be immersive, entertaining, and enjoyable. At DSF, W/we enjoy both options — role play AND real play (long distance).…
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Interview: Divine Goddess Tsol, by Scherzo
In the continuing profiles of the Divine Goddesses at Divine Sadism, i had the pleasure of sitting down with Divine Goddess Tsol. Well, she sat and i knelt. In both Her words and demeanor, it became clear that Divine Goddess Tsol doesn’t wish or need to assert Her dominance. It shines through in a natural…
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To Meet, Or Not To Meet, That is the Question
Hello beloved Community! It is I, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, back from a two week road trip across America. While it was lovely to see parts of the country I’ve never traveled before, this trip was also grueling, in that we were on the road for 8 days out of the 14 total days. But,…
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Questioning Y/your Comfort Zone
When it comes to D/s and kink, where is your comfort zone? Are there certain practices that come easily, and others that seem way beyond the boundaries of comprehension? As a Dominant Woman, one of My passions is safely pushing limits with those I engage with. I want to help them experience new things, and…
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Spooky SADISTIC Season!
It is LOCKTOBER F/friends! My favorite time of year. Not only do W/we get to play over-the-top dress up, but it is almost expected in the mainstream. P/people seem more tolerant of, and even inclined towards, pranks, parties, a bit of danger, and decadence! At DSF W/we always try to provide that balance between fun…
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Erase the Excuses!
“I’m only human.”Oh really? I didn’t fucking know that. Thanks for pointing it out. Yes, that is an excuse. And quite a stupid one. I thought you were a lump of shit. Well, in My reality, perhaps you are. WHY DO YOU MAKE EXCUSES FOR BAD BEHAVIOR? Just fess up. you wanted to self-indulge, be…
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The Goddesses’ Are on the Hunt
by Bodee Crisp Run ye tractable varmints and shelter yourselves,The rapturous Goddesses are on the hunt,Flee or be ensnared for resistance is futile. Bastet sniffs the air with curled tail alight,Scenting prey she crouches while talons extend,Pointed ears flick back before she pounces. They embody feral vixens,Scenting the musk of their terrified quarry,As savage urgings…
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Primal Play Presentation at The MELD
Except taken from the Presentation given by Divine Lady Cythe and Goddess Fox. Goddess Fox: For those of you who may not know me, I am a switch who happily calls her RL partner Daddy and calls my SL partner slave, imp, and pain slut. Today I want to mindfully describe for you what my…
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“The Ridge” – The NEW Release from LOVENSE!
Are Y/you ready for this? LOVENSE has done it again! Twirl into the world of anal with this long-distance, remote controllable device called “The Ridge”. https://www.lovense.com/r/3rd7va Whether you are a novice, or very experienced anal player, this vibrating silicone device will deliver delicious, decadent delights to Y/yourself or Y/your partner(s). With up to 116 rpm…
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Sirens’ Circle at DSF EVERY MONDAY at 5pm SLT
W/we are so proud to welcome Divine Sadist Lady Cythe and the “Sirens’ Circle” at DSF, each MONDAY at 5pm SLT. DSF SLURL: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Gianno/168/63/2503 The Sirens’ Circle is a traveling club of ONLY Dominant Women that support each other in unleashing Our inner Sirens, deepening Our pleasure, mesmerizing BDSM subs and slaves, and having Our…
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Predator & Prey at DSF
It’s time to begin the hunt, Sisters! In September, W/we will explore the adventurous dimension of “Predator & Prey”. That primal energy that erupts in a natural, sensual, and sadistic way. As We strategically plan to seduce, persuade, and capture those wild men and women, with Our Divine Sight and Sensibilities. There is a raw…
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Review of MyStim Tension Lover, by Talis
Pricing and ordering and delivery: The MyStim unit i bought came via www.bol.com for 117,50 euro (128 USD). This includes 4 gel pads, two double wires (+ and -), a 9V flat battery all packed in a nice case. In addition, I bought MyStim “charming chuck “(beats me why they call it chuck) which are two straps…
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Foot Fetishes: Worship, Slapping, Gagging… Oh My!
There is a common joy among slaves, even if they don’t identify as ‘foot fetishists’, and that is being near to their Dominant, kneeling, supplicant, or bowing at their feet. I consider ‘foot worship’ a bit different from just licking a boot. My own kinks lean further into the extremes of moist, sweaty, stinky, dirty…
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Ego vs. Confidence… Do W/we need them?
I once had a submissive male ask Me, “why do You get to have an ego, but i don’t?” Clearly his ego was getting in the way of his thought processes right then. *chuckle* So, I proceeded to explain to him that all humans have ego, but many need a ‘hard reset’ to bring bad…
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The Assfoolery & Bawdyville Show is coming!
In just a few weeks, DSF will be hosting it’s “Anal August Finale”, featuring a variety of silly, salacious acts that will entertain and amuse A/all! The Assfoolery & Bawdyville Show will feature DSF slaves and chattel, baring their bottoms and other talents on the Divine Sadism stage. The show is being coordinated by DSF’s…
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What is a POWER DIFFERENTIAL?
Most have heard of TPE (Total Power Exchange) when it comes to D/s relationships. Often you will hear people say, “I offer my submission as a gift.” Well, I didn’t ask for any gifts, now did I? At Divine Sadism Femdom, where “Women Rule, Period,” We prefer to express the energy flow in a dynamic…
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Interview with Property of DSF, weej — by chigley
chigley: Before we start, weej, i’d just like to thank you for all the help and support you have given me. It is so easy to get into deep shit here at DSF, and you have helped me out so many times! weej: It’s not a problem, my friend, we’re all in it together. chigley:…
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Why are you IN the lifestyle?
Have you ever thought about WHY you are in the BDSM D/s lifestyle? What drew you to it? Are you new to the lifestyle? Or a veteran? Is it something you can’t live without? Or just something you fancy? I got to wondering about this for Myself over the past few days. I have been…
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Pet Peeves of Poor Protocol
The following list is what I, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, find personally disappointing in slave behavior. Take note. 1.Not addressing Divine correctly. Misspelling My name, or offering the wrong honorific. We are high protocol, and this is BASIC.2. Not speaking from your knees. I identify, openly, as a Female Supremacist. If a slave stands and…
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“Anal Joy” Elevator Speech by Bodee
Afraid to touch your bung hole? Or be anally penetrated? Your apprehensions about anal play are likely related to sentiments about what comes out of, not what might go in, on, or around it. That, however, is easily remedied, as all you need to do is wash yourself thoroughly, and perhaps use a pre-packaged enema,…
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Maintaining FOCUS in D/s
We live in a world that is all about multi-tasking. How much can you accomplish in the limited 24-hours-a-day that you are given? We hustle and bustle from home, to work, to the gym, to the grocery store, to the doctor, etc. etc. The world becomes a blur of repetition and reruns. If we’re not…
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“Anal August” has Begun!
Do you have your butt plugs and LOVENSE toys ready? Today kicks of DSF’s new monthly theme, “Anal August”. What is all the fuss about? Well, many haven’t ever tried anal play. Some are curious, others fearful, but W/we will help you explore your back door, and familiarize you with all of the items you…
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Survive the Catacombs WINNERS
A great time was had by A/all who attended O/our July FINALE Event, “Find your FREEDOM: Survive the Catacombs”. This uniquely designed challenge by Divine Miss Rosa featured a trek through the creepy catacombs that lie beneath the DSF Cathedral. Participants were RLV trapped by their Dominants (or unowned slaves, by Anyone) and then subjected…
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LOVENSE REVIEW: The “Ferri” by DSF slave, Shine
An honest review of the Ferri, the clitoral panty vibrator. On the note of, this was my birthday, i was told to put the Ferri on, and at first, i didn’t really know what it was going to feel like; but with the Divine controlling the remote it did feel like a very OMG sensation…
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How to Build Trust in a Dynamic
Do Y/you remember doing the ‘trust fall’ in school with friends? Or even in the work place as a team building exercise? I recall that memorable scene from the movie “Mean Girls” when Gretchen apologizes for being so popular, lol. So, how does one build trust? For Me, just like at the movies when Y/you…
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DSF Radio is ON THE AIR!
Divine Miss Rosa and I, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra, keep working hard to roll out some great features to O/our M/members… and the latest is DSF Radio. DSF Radio is a 24/7 EXCLUSIVE station just for Divine Sadism Femdom. It will feature an eclectic mix of music, some live broadcasts from your fave DJ’s (including…
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Review: LOVENSE “Diamo” by DSF slave, Talis
Ordering and Delivery: Ordering via the LOVENSE website went smoothly, and delivery was completed in 3 days. Packaging is fully discreet, arriving in a neutral carton box. The Toy: “The Diamo” is a vibrating, remote-controlled cock ring, that looks and feels high quality. I have had other sex toys which were not even close to…
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“High Protocol” by DSF Columnist, Scherzo
As a big fan of High Protocol, i was glad to get this assignment on the topic by Editor in Chief, Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra. Before describing why I’m a fan, i suppose i should define what it actually means. According to Webster – ok, scratch that. According to this DSF slave columnist, High Protocol…
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Sirens’ Circle in SL, led by Divine Sadist Lady Cythe
The Sirens’ Circle is a traveling club, of only Dominant Women, that support each other in unleashing Our inner Sirens, deepening Our pleasure, mesmerizing BDSM subs and slaves, and having Our way with the world! Curious about the Siren’s call of the D/s Femdomme? Join Us for discussions, workshops, and the joy of having a…
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LOVENSE: “Flexer” Review by Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra
Divine Sadism Femdom is proud to be an official “Lovense Affiliate Partner“, https://lovense.com/p/D-S-F , and they are having some fantastic sales this month, up to 55% off on some toys, so I figured I’d jump into the fray and buy one. I’m not new to sex toys, but I am new to long-distance, remote controlled…
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“Anal August” is on the Whore-izon
This month’s community theme is “FREEDOM through control”, and as W/we continue to explore topics for the remainder of July on that theme, W/we also want Y/you looking ahead to next month… “Anal August”. Whether Y/you have toyed with Y/your backdoor, or never have explored the edge of Y/your darker region, W/we will help open…
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“Who is slave Talis?” by Talis
i have worked for over 35 years in the corporate world, holding many different leadership positions, and operated significant portions of the business for the company. i negotiated, on behalf of the company, deals that were in serious trouble, and would have high financial impact to the bottom line. i travelled for work into nearly…
