A FEMALE-LED COMMUNITY

Category: Play

  • Careful What You Wish For: Edging for No-Cum-Vember

    Edging.  It is something I have a love/hate relationship with and this month, No-Cum-Vember, has been especially illustrative of the struggles I have. This past month at my Rites of Redemption, I was given two tasks. The first, like all the other s-types at DSF, was to not cum for the entire month unless given…

  • s-types should Always “Ask”, Don’t “Tell”

    It is natural in casual conversation (not a D/s environment) to say, “Hey, I’m going home now,” or perhaps, “I’ll be back later, dinner time!” But in O/our high protocol Femdom, that is considered directing yourself and telling a Dominant what you are going to do. Unacceptable! This is a form of stealing power. And…

  • Don’t Reward Bad Behavior

    Do You give Your dog a treat when he shits on the carpet? What about when Your cat pees on Your favorite boots? No! Of course You don’t. So, don’t reward bad behavior of s-types when they act up to get attention, or get what they want. That will not make a more obedient or…

  • “Love is NOT an Emotion” by Divine Sadist Isabelle

    It’s the season of love, and many like to celebrate Valentine’s Day. We buy cards and treats to offer as gifts of ‘love’. Is this something you do? I did a little digging about the ’emotion of love’. I’ll paraphrase part of an article summarizing studies on love. Studies say maternal and romantic love are…

  • Out Damn, Spot!

    As a Woman who practices Goddess/slave dynamics, the thought of a ‘dog’ sleeping in My bed disgusts Me. No, I’m not talking about your four-legged fur babies… I’m talking the naked bitch boy who eats scraps from the floor. In My view, a slave is there to serve Me, and I wouldn’t think of having them…

  • Putting the Honor in the Honorific

    Yes, Sir.No, Ma’am.Yes, your Honor.No, your Majesty. Why do we offer ‘special titles’ to those we may not know in the mainstream, yet, sometimes hesitate to offer them up in D/s circles? Perhaps it is the lack of disciplinary structure and training in most SL communities, few of which employ high protocol. But let’s dig a…

  • Metamorphosis and Transformation in D/s

    Are Y/you a numb little bug trying to find Y/your place in the world of BDSM? Do Y/you have a desire to grow and change in Y/your D/s practice? To experience a ‘deepening’ in service, or Dominance? Well then, Y/you have come to the right place… Divine Sadism Femdom. In the realm of Second Life,…

  • The Value of Virtual BDSM

    When I chat with F/friends who are not online in Second Life, or perhaps don’t even really get online beyond checking email, Facebook, or watching the occasional YouTube video, I’m often met with confused looks and weird comments about, “that’s not REAL, why are you so into it?“ Most of these F/folks don’t even know…

  • Foot Fetishes: Worship, Slapping, Gagging… Oh My!

    There is a common joy among slaves, even if they don’t identify as ‘foot fetishists’, and that is being near to their Dominant, kneeling, supplicant, or bowing at their feet. I consider ‘foot worship’ a bit different from just licking a boot. My own kinks lean further into the extremes of moist, sweaty, stinky, dirty…

  • Funny, or Twat?

    A male visitor walks into a high-protocol, Divine Sadistic Femdom. Another man on his knees tries to be humorous and says, “Hey Joe, take a seat or pull up a knee.” Funny? Or twat? This happened tonight on deck, the inner sanctum. O/ur highest protocol zone within the Queendom. The ‘joker’ is a member, familiar…

  • 1000 Words of Summer – Task for DSF serfs

    This project will run from June 22 to September 23. DSF serfs are tasked to write 1000 words, at minimum, in the time frame specified above. Write it just 12 words a day, or 1000 at once, the choice is yours. You may also write more than 1000, or pick more than one topic. Pick…

  • SL Shopping Therapy & Slave Training

    Ladies, let’s be honest… who doesn’t love to shop in SL? Anyone? Thankfully at DSF W/we have the guidance of Divine Duchess Nellie, and her amazing posts to hot finds on the Discord #dsf-shopping channel. You can go there to find curated items that the Duchess herself has researched, tested, and even purchased. So, how…

  • Tongue Tied