Category: Guides
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Humor in Submission…
Power exchange in general, and Femdom in particular (that’s really why i’m here, after-all) ) can often rightly be very serious business. Deep emotions are being tapped into between Goddess and slave: trust, dedication, bonding, cherishing, caring, affection, The list goes on and on and is as exquisitely unique as the people involved. So is…
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Thankfulness 365 Days A Year
Life can be a hard ride. Often, the cards we are dealt seem stacked against us. Our brains evolved to prioritize survival over comfort or calm. We scan for threat, register disappointment faster than satisfaction, and remember harm more vividly than safety. This negative bias has kept our species alive. It has also influenced the…
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Transformative D/s Dynamics
At DSF W/we work very hard at ‘investing’ our time, energy, and efforts on developing a strong collaborative community that understands and supports its M/members. O/our practice, both solely in Second Life (SL), as well as SL to Real Life (RL), focuses on the personal development of both Domme and slave. It is focused, intentional, and…
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Embracing Your Sadism
Tonight, Miss Rosa facilitated a wonderful Salon on the topic of “Sadism – What Kind of Sadist are You?”. Great conversation was had around the subject, with questions and comments regarding, “What does your sadism mean to you? Do you shy away from identifying as a sadist? If so, why, or why not?“ Towards the end of…
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Responsible “Endings” in D/s Dynamics
Recently, I was quite shocked and disappointed by a Dominant acquaintance, who dumped their slave after deciding they wanted to shift their life direction away from Femdom, and toward another life passion. Literally, their slave was told, after sensing something was off, “I’m leaving Femdom, and we can stay friends, but I’m moving in this…
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Evaluating your needs, wants, and necessities in a D/s dynamic
As human beings, W/we evolve, change, and transform each day. What you may have desired in your 20s can look quite different in your 50s. So when was the last time you truly evaluated what your needs, wants, and necessities are for a current dynamic? Do you need more gentle nurturing? Or are you ready…
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Setting the Scene in SL
A lot of people in Second Life, often, who have RL BDSM experience, find ‘virtual scening’ less than satisfying. But as One who has done both, I can say that planning a pixel play session can be immersive, entertaining, and enjoyable. At DSF, W/we enjoy both options — role play AND real play (long distance).…
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Ego vs. Confidence… Do W/we need them?
I once had a submissive male ask Me, “why do You get to have an ego, but i don’t?” Clearly his ego was getting in the way of his thought processes right then. *chuckle* So, I proceeded to explain to him that all humans have ego, but many need a ‘hard reset’ to bring bad…
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“Anal Joy” Elevator Speech by Bodee
Afraid to touch your bung hole? Or be anally penetrated? Your apprehensions about anal play are likely related to sentiments about what comes out of, not what might go in, on, or around it. That, however, is easily remedied, as all you need to do is wash yourself thoroughly, and perhaps use a pre-packaged enema,…
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Humor in Submission… by Scherzo
Power exchange in general, and Femdom in particular (that’s really why i’m here, after-all) ) can often rightly be very serious business. Deep emotions are being tapped into between Goddess and slave: trust, dedication, bonding, cherishing, caring, affection, The list goes on and on and is as exquisitely unique as the people involved. So is…
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“FREEDOM through control” by Scherzo
With a nod to Independence Day this month (in the US), today’s topic is freedom – specifically, freedom through control by the Divine Goddesses here at Divine Sadism. It seems a bit of a contradiction on first blush. After all, freedom is usually associated with less control over our actions by others, so how could…
