In the continuing profiles of the Divine Goddesses at Divine Sadism, i had the pleasure of sitting down with Divine Goddess Tsol. Well, she sat and i knelt. In both Her words and demeanor, it became clear that Divine Goddess Tsol doesn’t wish or need to assert Her dominance. It shines through in a natural way for the aware sub or slave to be drawn into.
Q: Whereabouts in the world are You from?
A: Down Under. Queensland, Australia.
Q: Would You say You like to control every aspect of Your life, or do You prefer to go with the flow?
A: I’m an easy-going person who enjoys controlling others more than remaining in control of every aspect of My own life. But I am procedural in My planning in general.
Q: Could You tell us how and when You realised You were a Dominant, and how this developed into becoming a Divine?
A: I was 16 when I began to feel and explore My dominance over boys in small ways, such as ordering them to take off their shirt in front of Me. It seemed a natural extension of My sexuality. Throughout My marriage, in My 20’s, I suppressed My natural proclivity and lived My desires in My head, so it wasn’t until My 30’s that I started to engage with the BDSM world. And it wasn’t until My 40’s that I actively sought out submissives.
Q: Do You live the Mistress/slave relationship in RL?
A: I haven’t owned slaves, but do have RL Mistress/submissive relationships.
Q: What is Your star sign?
A: Leo
Q: Please describe Your style of domination?
A: I like to draw subs to Me rather than demand it. To paraphrase Game of Thrones, “Any man who must say ‘I am the King’, is no true King. I don’t feel the need to be performative in My role as Mistress, but do not hesitate to be harsh and strict with submissives once they’re in My web.
Q: Would You say You are a Female Supremacist and what does that term mean to You?
A: I would not describe Myself as such. I feel someone with that mindset believes that Women are superior in every way.
Q: Do You own any slaves at the moment? Are You interested in acquiring any?
A: I have a devoted sub and am not looking for a personal slave since they’re available here at DSF for Me to freely use.
Q: Do you have a preference for playing with male or female slaves? Do You have different techniques for training and expectations of male or female slaves?
A: I only seek male submissives and slaves..
Q: Do You like to include RL when playing with a slave or do You keep just to SL?
A: Yes, absolutely I like to include RL. I love the voice aspect in particular.
Q: So You use voice?
A: Clearly. I feel it’s important for a sub to learn My voice, its intonation, and respond to it without hesitation. I enjoy the immediacy of voice. It cuts out the middle man – his thoughts. I want them to trust My voice in situations, for example, where I might blindfold the sub. I want to hear their pleasure, frustration, yearning, pain, begging. And from a practical standpoint, voice is important to determine the well-being of a sub or slave, as You may hear something they are not aware of and would not self report in a typing exchange, allowing better management of the interaction.
Q: What interests You most in a potential new slave?
A: their desire to serve. their commitment to FACILITATING My HAPPINESS AND satisfaction, along with displaying a sense of devotion. A clever and quick wit in a sub is attractive as well.
Q: What do You think about limits in a Mistress/slave relationship?
A: I believe in the safe, sane, consensual approach to D/s relationships. There can be discussions of limits up front, however once a slave is committed, there’s no ‘i don’t want to do that!’ I also enjoy taking a sub right up to his limit boundary and perhaps inch him towards an experience he may end up very much enjoying.
Q: Do You believe that almost any man can become a good slave by the right amount of training and conditioning?
A: Categorically, no, from personal experience. The spark of desire to serve must be there. I do find submissive men more masculine in my eyes… they are not threatened by the strength of a Woman, of being man enough to serve Her, worship Her, obey Her; those who have less of a grasp on their masculinity may have trouble with these concepts.
Q: What makes for a successful Mistress/slave relationship?
A: Trust, trust, trust. Mutual goals, a feedback loop, honesty. Trust.
Q: What responsibility does the Mistress have towards the slave?
A: their safety and well-being, and making the effort to understand their needs, which drives their motivation to serve Me.
Q: What is the most difficult aspect of being a Mistress?
A: The selection and vetting process. Weeding out men who just want to be topped rather than truly express their devotion.
Q: What are Your favourite kinks and fetishes?
A: Control, Foot worshipping, anal play, bondage stress positions, and kicking, are a few. In SL specifically, the roleplay of a fox sub hunt where I’m able to capture, bind, and lead away males as My captive. Although I don’t want to be defined by any of my kinks.
Q: What excites You most – to inflict suffering or to be in total control?
A: Both! I want submissives to relinquish control and tolerate suffering as an act of devotion. RL control is very exciting for Me, but it is rare to find someone willing to engage in such.
Q: Do You enjoy degradation and humiliation?
A: Very much so. It’s a wonderful platform for taking power, while at the same time being both amusing and arousing.
Q: What attracted You to Divine Sadism Femdom?
A: I’ve always had 1-1, monogamous relationships with submissives in SL, but found Myself fascinated as Divine Queen Bitch Tanarra explained the collaborative approach of slave ownership and use at a discussion group. I also very much enjoy the stable of available slaves to use since I don’t own personal ones. Divine Sadism has since emboldened Me to learn and get more of what I want with subs and slaves.
Q: If You remember the old Divine Sadism, what changes have You noticed?
A: I do not.
Q: What do You feel about financial domination or findomming?
A: It’s not an interest of Mine, although I don’t judge others who do engage in it. I see it as a niche kink.
Q: What is the best/worst memory You have of a Mistress/slave relationship?
A: Best – No one memory comes to mind, but there have been many pleasant ones. It’s like choosing among children.
Worst – Having a supposedly devoted slave poached away by a fraudulent Domme who discarded him mere weeks later.
Q: Could You describe a favourite scene that You have been involved with?
A: No one scene. They begin to blend together.
Q: What is Your favourite toy?
A: I do not have a favorite toy, but am fond of the Riding crop – A silicon-tipped one for the sting and one with a leather loop for the nice sound it makes when it strikes.
Q: What other Femdom sims do You visit in SL?
A: I visited Lotus Island until it closed. The Realm. Domina Sanctuaire. Some good discussions on the other sims, but I mostly stick to Divine Sadism.
Q: What else do You like doing in SL?
A: 1-1 roleplay. I have a Mer character who seduces men from the shore . Beyond that, listening to music and vanilla socializing.
Thank you, Divine Goddess Tsol for spending time with me for this informative interview.
Scherzo
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