I once had a submissive male ask Me, “why do You get to have an ego, but i don’t?” Clearly his ego was getting in the way of his thought processes right then. *chuckle*
So, I proceeded to explain to him that all humans have ego, but many need a ‘hard reset’ to bring bad ego in check.
Having confidence is NOT bad ego. It is merely knowing what Y/you are good at, skilled at, capable of, etc. In Femdom, and FLR’s, We recognize that Women are best suited to Leadership. Does this mean the man You are leading (or Woman who chooses to serve) is incapable of leading? No, of course not. But, it does mean, in consensual non-consent dynamics, that the slave agrees to be led by the Divine.
So, do I get to have ego? Yes. Do I strive to keep My own ego in check? Every single day. Being a humble, yet confidant, Woman is very important to Me, and to My Sisters at DSF. We aren’t here to ‘fluff Our feathers’, or puff Our chests out, no matter how happy that would make Our naughty slaves.
Rather, We are here to engage with like-minded P/participants of the lifestyle who are diligently working on T/themselves to bring joy, entertainment, learning, growth, and gains to E/each other. What was that old, workout commercial slogan… “No Pain, No Gain?”
While that related to O/one’s physical efforts, W/we also work on the strenuous mental reshaping. And that takes time. Sometimes a lifetime isn’t enough, but with daily training, Y/you can reshape Y/yourself.
So, are We trying to remove ego completely? No. But when Y/you feel Y/yourself bristle at a remark, an action, a critique… stop and focus inward. Is it bad ego reacting in that moment? Are Y/you actively, and objectively, listening and participating mindfully in the situation?
How can Y/you be better? By working in a collaborative environment, Y/you are already taking steps toward positive change. Y/you are challenging Y/yourself by being willing to interact with O/others. And by controlling Y/yourself, Y/your behaviors, and reactions, Y/you are better positioned to grow a healthier ego, with a more worldly perspective, which benefits U/us all.
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