Afraid to touch your bung hole? Or be anally penetrated? Your apprehensions about anal play are likely related to sentiments about what comes out of, not what might go in, on, or around it. That, however, is easily remedied, as all you need to do is wash yourself thoroughly, and perhaps use a pre-packaged enema, and you’ll be clean as a whistle. And your partner(s) will surely appreciate a little attention to hygiene, because no one really wants to touch or smell a dirty butt! While you can certainly find it, if it is your fetish, we aren’t talking about playing with your poop here.
Your ass, and especially your perineum and anus, can be very stimulating erogenous zones with all of their nerve endings. And that’s just the outside! Male sexual arousal swells the prostate gland, and many men find that direct or indirect pressure on the gland during sex creates a deep, pleasurable sensation that can lead to more powerful and intense orgasms – if you can find your ‘P-spot’. Or if your partner(s) can find it! And enjoying anal play has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual orientation; straight, bi-sexual, gay, pan-sexual or what ever you feel… everyone has an asshole, and playing with it doesn’t make you anything but more horny and turned on. And it is so deliciously kinky isn’t it?
In D/s dynamics anal play can be very empowering for the Domme, and very humbling for the submissive. The power exchange that comes from a submissive surrendering their most intimate body parts is transcendent! Especially those parts that the submissive cannot see and, in general, has little control over anyway. It is equally empowering for the Domme, who may enjoy all the varied effects of stimulation, flagellation, or penetration of this highly sensual area as she exerts her control over her sub in both body and mind. And isn’t overcoming apprehensions and confronting taboos how submissives expand their horizons and grow?
So, loosen up a bit! Start slowly, use lots of lube, and work up to taking all that your Mistress may have to give you. You have nothing to fear from your butt, and you may find you enjoy it!
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