It’s natural to react when someone corrects you. Most take it personally as a criticism. This is human. HOWEVER, in a high protocol Femdom, such as DSF, corrections must be accepted with grace and humility.
If a Divine Sister spends energy and time to reprimand you over something She deems unpleasant, not only does She care to make you better as a servant, but She is spending precious life minutes of Her time to educate you to Her style of D/s. Corrections = education in DSF. We don’t waste time educating those We don’t see potential in. Be grateful for the learning opportunity.
When you feel your temperature rising, in an unpleasant way, take a moment to focus, breathe deeply, and remember where you are and WHY. W/we all choose to be where W/we are. W/e love the good vibrations of collaborative BDSM. But you must learn to take the punches with the praise.
Check out this link for more information on how to ‘settle yourself’ when you feel reactive.
https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-calm-down
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